People live in a society which is formed, of course, by people but not only humans are the important factors but the real thing that forms a society is the tradition, rules, culture and values. And yes we must count the humanism, which takes under the views of each person that what are the important factors which make a human being the God’s best created creature. Human being is very complex creature which can really think and this makes the life difficult because if one has the ability to think means each and every person is able to think and has rights to walk trough the lines of his/her thinking. No one should be stopped to work as there mind says but the fact is very different. We know if each person is given authority to work in the way they think can destroy the main cause of forming a society and thus heads of a society follow some very tough rules and regulation to maintain the decorum.
Virginity is a part of human life. This word is scientifically very easy to understand, it just means, a state of being virgin, and virgin means a person who has never had sex. Just so simple. Virginity here is confined to the physical limits.
Human generation has always misunderstood the vast idea of human life. When we discuss love we generally end up saying sex is the last level. Is that true? May be in some cases, world is full of exceptions but the real thing we should try to understand is that how a human mind works differently in different situations. All that we say comes from a very discrete source of energy and thoughts. We actually cannot describe our each step of action for a real world problem. Nice to think about a dream. Things may be confusing thus we must not go very deep and try to understand each and every aspect and also not to go by the scientific ideas but yes to prove things to mind we need some facts which are related to science.
As far as my idea is concern I will say you not to bother much for a scientific prove towards each and every human psychology and behavior.
“Virginity as a concept”
I have some ideas and my own concerns on this very topic. As I said each and every person has there own way of thinking and you cannot just say that this is cent percent untrue because its no where written by some very well known writer or mahatma, as no one knows the reality.
I believe that virginity is a very complex word and it deals with a person in three ways simultaneously, body, mind and soul. Yes each of it works at the same time. So as I believe a person may be a woman or a man is virgin at three levels.
Virgin Body
Virgin Mind &
Virgin Soul
Now from here virginity turns into a special property of a human. If we could ever find that a person in front of us comes under which level of virginity we can really do miracles with that person and this world.
Sense of virginity: virgin means untouched, going a bit deeper we can say which is never found or exploited. Thus the one which is still divine and is pure in its purest form.
A very easy view to get the real picture, this can easily make one understand that if someone’s body is untouched its virgin body, if mind then its virgin mind and if soul its virgin soul.
Value and sense of being virgin in each form:
Now understanding the fact that which kind of virginity is acceptable and why? Or if any new idea of view is there then how can we deal with these kinds of virginity.
Virgin Body: There is nothing to understand in this form of virginity, because each and every adult passes through this level and loose all what they say they actually have “The Virginity”. A very common sense of understanding between people is about body. A mere sexual relation can break this level and let a person feel that he has lost something which was a very valuable but made to be lost entity. While living in a society we have to pass this stage because we are mortals and we are made to loose this.
Real idea: real idea behind this is that we should make our self such a character that while living in a society we keep this most valuable gift for the life partner. This is a very practical concept of a society and true for some extent.
Virgin Mind: Now a very common question that arises in our mind, what is this “virgin Mind”, how can a mind be virgin. It’s not ridiculous and we must understand that we don’t need any organ to keep on virginity. Virgin mind is the second level of virginity and we don’t need to pass through the first level to reach this one. A very simple idea to make this understand is that the mind is still untouched by any emotion, feeling, person, thought or any word anything.
Real idea: A person since his birth looses this form of virginity in some or other way. As I said one cannot safeguard himself/herself from being affected. As the age passes we slowly and steady loose this to many things. We keep on changing ideas and emotions and person. All the artists, lovers and warriors fall in this level of virginity looser.
Virgin Soul: As I said in mind level the almost same thing happens in this level of virginity. Soul as we know the part of god inside us that enlightens our life and keeps us alive is generally untouched. In very few cases only a person looses this form of virginity. A very heavy flow of emotion or sorrow or word leaves a mark deep inside us as that a line is drawn on our soul which makes us loose this and we are not capable of getting “MOKSHA”.
Real idea: each person falls in some terrible situation or emotion that delves deeper inside his sub-conscious mind and reaches to the soul. And marks a line that is not easily erasable by any form of happiness or word. Soul when corrupted a man turns into evil and does harm to mankind. Still the main source of energy always prompts the person to get away from this kind of situation. At last it’s the destiny of human to find rest of soul, and so automatically we get again the very own virgin soul.
Understanding them: A person in his life span goes through many phases and looses his/her all level of virginity some day, but at last we are made to achieve the most important of these the “virgin soul”. As I said each other form of virginity is easily lost and is always no loss, no profit situation, we have very easy and may be a bit difficult solutions for both, mind and body levels but soul is a difficult case.
***Each person has its own limit of getting into situations and loosing levels of virginity.
There is no hard and fast rule for this, but yet virgin body once lost is a loss for a life and is irrecoverable.
